By Ikechukwu Amaechi
We are all gathered here today to celebrate the life and death of our father, Nze Alexander Amadikwa Anamelechi Amaechi, who was called to eternal glory on Thursday, April 2, 2009 at the Federal Medical Centre (FMC), Owerri.
Born on March 24, 1932 to Amaechi Akarakpo and his first wife, Odionye, Papa was the last of the seven children of his mother. His father’s second wife, Ugo-ocha, had three other children. With the death of Papa, only one of the ten children of Akarakpo and his two wives is still alive today.
He attended St. Bede’s Primary School, Obohia where he obtained the Standard Six Certificate. He later acquired a Diploma Certificate in Marketing through a Correspondence College. With both certificates, and an infectious charisma, he went into the world of salesmanship where he shone like a million stars.
Though his was a modest education, all who came in contact with him can testify that he was a man of prodigious intellect, a gift he deployed fully in all the places he worked. He was an administration guru and salesman per excellence. He left home in his youth in search of the axiomatic greener pasture. In the process, he worked in many blue chip companies, in all parts of the country, most times in management capacity.
But it was in Marketing that he made the most enduring mark. His stint at the Sterling Industries International, a pharmaceutical company, makers of different drugs including Cafenol, was, perhaps, the most remarkable. So successful was he in marketing the brand that he was nicknamed Cafenol, a name many called him several years after he left the company. His marketing skills not only took him to different parts of the country, but also different parts of Africa.
On December 19, 1965, he wedded former Miss Appolonia Agbonma Ugo in the Catholic Church in Enugu. The marriage is blessed with eight children – four boys (Ikechukwu, Chukwuma, Chidiebere, Chijioke) and four girls (Chinyere, Ndidi, Vivian, Ngozi).
Papa was not the sickly type. He had no life threatening ailment known to us. About six months ago, he went for a comprehensive medical check-up and all the results were negative. Therefore, when my younger sister, Ngozi, called on Monday, March 30, to say he was not feeling fine and that she would take him to the hospital to be examined by the Doctors the following day, there was no reason for us to be agitated. Even when the doctor said he was going to admit him, we agreed and there was no premonition of his death. The idea was for him to have a deserved bed rest. Little did we know that God had other plans. He wanted him to have eternal rest. Indeed, that was about the first time he was going on admission. It was also his last. Two days after, he was gone. Knowing Papa well, that was the only way he would love to take his final bow – peacefully.
Are we mourning? Yes, of course. We are because we are human. In his death, we have not only lost a husband, father, grandfather, uncle and brother, but we have also lost a friend, a confidant and a role model. We are grieving because we have lost our counselor, the man from whom we got our inspiration.
But we are consoled that though at 77 years, Papa may not have died at the axiomatic ‘ripe old age,’ yet, his was not a premature death. Agreed, we would have loved him to live much longer, to enjoy the fruits of his labour, but we are also not unmindful of the fact that what is important in the life of every human being is not how long one lives, but how well. Or as the philosophers would say, “It matters not how a man dies, but how he lives.”
Nze Amaechi lived well and it is in that sense that we celebrate today, even as we mourn. We are celebrating because in the theatre of life, he played his God-given role well and he died a fulfilled man.
We have been overwhelmed by the tributes paid by even those we never knew had any relationship with him, by the testimonies given by men, women and children from far and near, and our pain today is drastically lessened by the realization that there was nobody who came to him for any kind of help that left disappointed. He dedicated his life to the service of humanity. This realization is not sudden, though.
We have always known that Papa had a heart of gold and was selfless. He would readily inconvenience himself to solve the other man’s problem. In him, all who had problems had a listening ear. Since 1993 when he finally decided to come back home after working with Techint Limited, an Argentine construction company in Enugu, his house became a Mecca of sorts to all who wanted solutions to one problem or the other. He had time for everybody; he had the patience of a dove and the Wisdom of Solomon.
He was also a charismatic leader who played invaluable role in the development of his community. He never shied away from any assignment which in his opinion would uplift his people. Till death he was the Financial Secretary of ‘Group Four,’ Amaiyi. He was also the chairman of the Constitution Drafting Committee (CDC) of Ndi Nze Ahiazu. He worked tirelessly to ensure that the association which membership he cherished so much was bequeathed with an enduring constitution.
We mourn because physically our father is no longer with us. But we are also not unmindful of St. Paul’s admonition in 1 Thessalonica, Chapter 4, Verses 13 – 14 thus: “But I don’t want you to be ignorant brethren concerning those who have fallen asleep, lest you sorrow as others who have no hope for if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so God will bring with Him those who sleep in Jesus.”
Papa ran a good race and we are comforted by the knowledge that he has gone home to partake in the promises of God. Rest in Peace.
Wife and Children